My first outing as an agony aunt
Absolutely delighted that a piece of advice written by me has appeared in today’s London Paper in the Heart Surgery section. It’s sadly not published on their website, but here’s what it said.
Q I came out as a lesbian to myself and my friends last year and am just getting used to it. I’ve been dating a girl for a month and she’s dropping hints that we should spend more time together. It’s too soon for me to get serious – how do I let her down gently? Anon
My reader’s reply was the first published. Strangely like commenting on a blog but actually appearing in print, which is satisfying.
A One of the great things about coming out is the rush of emotions, like puberty all over again but without the spots! There’s no hurry to settle down. Be honest with yourself that you’re happier enjoying the “teenage” rollercoaster for now, and tell her how you feel. Andy
It’s not the best thing I’ve ever written. Wildly swinging metaphors, gratuitous punctuation and lack of pace. But published with my name at the end.
I’m so proud of you. Eat your heart out, Deirdre! x